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NyaInIJahLove
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« Reply #5 on: January 08, 2007, 01:00:08 PM » |
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Greetings Idren The first time I saw my partner/King to the I, he was crocheting tams, he just wore tams while locks dreaded,I just walked round matty n frizzy for a couple of yrs,he has cut his a couple times, due to lice and so have I.New set of nattys happening but I never want to cut mine again, Radic is more flexible. Some of us just never liked nor wanted to pick up a comb or brush. I do separate mine a little tho, one big matty is none to comfortable fe I. b.t.w we are both pale skin, RAds is quite red, mine slighty freckled,and both have thick wavy hair that grows copiously. never worried about what shampoo,although I have a preferance for Ayervedic herbal shampoo powder and organic herbal shampoos or hemp shampoo bars are nice.my locks like to curl up at the end to resemble manicured ganga,so do RAds but I prefer wispy ends as they go a beautiful golden colour, so I try stop the curl up/lock up.I guess I dont allow dem complete freedom to do what they like but hygiene and aesthetics are an issue to.I do like to look in the mirror and admire my locks,their wildness, their meness of individual shape...etc , after losing them a couple times,and the resultant loss of personal ease and clarity of who I was,my locks sometimes feel like the part of my body I fel the most at home in.It may be a kind of vanity,but its more an affirmation of Pride in faith, my locks represent so much to me that is sacred and free,staunch and principled,wild and untamed in Love and Spirit....so could this be a form of spiritual/material vanity? or do other RAs identify with I words? One Love and Inity NeriNya
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